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Ashley Solomon, Psy.D is a psychologist who specializes in the treatment of eating disorders, body image, trauma, and serious mental illness.

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What is trauma?

February 14, 2011 14 Comments by Ashley @ Nourishing the Soul

bookonbeach When many of us think of trauma, the images conjured in our minds consist of men in fatigues carrying their wounded brother in their arms or the child victims of a devastating earthquake begging for food.

This is why it’s not usually very useful for medical professionals to ask patients, “Have you experienced trauma?” Usually, patients will deny trauma because they haven’t been a victim of obvious physical abuse, natural disaster, or combat.

But when I ask my own patients whether they’ve ever felt extremely unsafe, felt violated, or been made to feel overwhelmed and powerless, the answers often change. When they learn that the painful experiences that they have faced, the ones that have often haunted them in small and large ways for years, they often feel relief and hope.

Like these patients, many of us fail to recognize the sometimes subtle face of trauma. We’ve learned to associate the word with devastating once-in-a-lifetime incidents that leave us with nightmares and panic attacks.

But trauma often takes dresses in more understated attire. A traumatic experience is any one that leaves a person feeling in extreme distress and that overwhelms a person’s ability to cope. The individual often feels powerless and vulnerable.

Taken in this way, many experiences fall under the category of traumatic: losing a job, discovering a parent’s drug use, being bitten by an animal, being coerced into sex, the loss of a sibling, dealing with a disease, being cheated on in a relationship, facing harassment or discrimination, and many more. While the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs estimates the prevalence of trauma to be 50-60% of the population, I suspect the numbers are even higher.

What is okay for one might not be for another

Traumatic experiences are not universal. Each of us has our own level of what psychologists call resilience that can influence how the level of impact that an event might have on us. Factors related to resilience include having positive relationships, healthy self-esteem, and strong communication and emotion management skills. For individuals who may be lacking in these areas, through no fault of their own, events may be perceived as even more devastating and have longer-lasting impacts. If a person’s system is already stressed, it makes sense that he or she would then not have as many resources to be able to cope with a new trauma.

Effects of trauma

We now fortunately have the technology to better understand the impact of trauma on the brain. Any trauma, but especially chronic ones such as repeated abuse or neglect, can actually change the structure and functioning of the brain. Our response system can be significantly altered, resulting in various emotional and physical symptoms that can leave us feeling dysregulated. Some of these include mood swings, nightmares, trembling, confusion, withdrawing from other people, difficulty sleeping, heart racing, and many more.

What psychologists and other researchers are learning is that traumatic experiences in youth can have truly profound long-term consequences if not addressed. Kids who have been traumatized display increased cognitive issues and work problems, show higher levels of social difficulties and disabilities, take poorer care of their health, and even have earlier death on average.

Trauma and body image

Our body image is comprised of a host of complex, interrelated factors. For individuals who have been the victims of trauma, the body can literally and figuratively carry the weight of the psychic pain endured by the individual. Contrary to what mainstream medicine would have us believe, our minds and our bodies are inextricably linked. When an individual suffers trauma, particularly sexual trauma, their sense of the value, function, and dangerousness of his or her body often shifts. This is particularly true for women, according to research. The shame, guilt, betrayal and myriad of other feelings that can result from trauma puts individuals at high risk for body image disorders and eating disorders. Some experts estimate that up to 80% of those with eating disorders have suffered some form of trauma.

Treating trauma

The effects of trauma are serious, and even potentially deadly at times, and speak to the importance of getting treatment if one should endure a trauma. Fortunately, treatment does exist and can have incredibly positive effects on a person’s quality of life. While lots of treatment options are available, most include a few key components: education about trauma and the development of symptoms, examination of thoughts, beliefs, and feelings around the experience, the teaching of coping skills. Treatment might involve medication, individual therapy, group therapy, self-help exercises, or other components.

For articles, books, and other trauma resources, check out the American Psychological Association’s trauma page or David Baldwin’s comprehensive Trauma Information Pages.

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12 Comments

  1. Katie @ Health for the Whole Self
    828 days ago

    I very much appreciate you posting this. I remember when my counselor first asked if I had experienced trauma, and I, like many of your patients, gave an emphatic no. And yet as time went on and I began sharing more and more of my history, it turns out I very much was a trauma victim. We needed to unravel that in order to effectively deal with my body image and food/weight issues.
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  2. Anna Guest-Jelley
    828 days ago

    Thanks for sharing this–very useful and important.

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  3. Alex @ Healing Beauty
    828 days ago

    Thank you for this post Ashley! It wasn’t until I started treatment for my ED that I found out that an experience I went through was considered trauma. Because I hadn’t “been a victim of obvious physical abuse, natural disaster, or combat” I did not think that what I went through was serious enough. Having my own experience validated was one of the most empowering things because I realized (after many years) that it wasn’t what was wrong with me, it was what was wrong with what happened to me. Your blog is incredible and I very much appreciate all of your insight and helpful information.
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  4. Michele @ Healthy Cultivations
    828 days ago

    This is a really important post. There was a time when I thought trauma had to be much larger events and didn’t realize seemingly little things can leave profound impressions and effects. This post might shed light on that for others.

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  5. charlotte
    828 days ago

    THis is such an important post! From personal experience, I would say you are totally right with that 80% stat for ED’ed girls. I also really appreciate how you point out that what is traumatic for one person may not be for someone else. Thank you for this!
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  6. Dolores Ayotte
    828 days ago

    Ashley…this is a very enlightening post. Thanks for your insight on the topic of trauma!
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  7. Andrea Owen
    828 days ago

    THis is so important, Ashley, thank you! When my therapist (and my GP) told me I had PTSD from my divorce, I thought they were nuts. Only war veterans have that is what I thought, and how dare I catagorize myself with them. One day I went back to the place I worked at when I was going through my divorce. I went back to have lunch with old co-workers and just driving into the parking lot made me physically ill. Walking into the building was terrible, I walked by the bathroom I used to go into to sob my eyes out and I knew I had to leave. I also knew I had trauma and PTSD.

    Coming to terms with that has been helpful in healing, and I hope others that read this article can get the help they need.
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    • Ashley @ Nourishing the Soul
      827 days ago

      That’s a really fantastic example of the experiences that someone can have following a trauma. Giving it a name can feel strange, but can also be so validating, and as you said, healing. Thanks for sharing your own experience.

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  8. Ann Becker-Schutte
    828 days ago

    Ashley, thank you for this post. I think that providing ourselves and our clients with this kind of context: that trauma comes in all shapes and sizes, and is intensely personal, is one of the gifts of this work. Naming trauma and shame and the impact that they have on us is a huge step in healing. Just feeling seen and heard is so powerful.

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  9. Kat
    828 days ago

    I think this is a really important topic.. Based on my own experience, I can say that sometimes you may feel all those things that you listed (violated, scared, etc), but declare to yourself or to others that it’s not trauma because you’ve in essence made it okay in your mind… Told yourself over and over that it’s normal – as a way of coping with it.

    I convinced myself over the years that a lot of things that still haunt me were normal… and that’s a dangerous activity as when you realize and come to terms with the fact that it was indeed traumatic… and was indeed abuse you have to deal with a lot of events.

    Making it more well known what trauma is… and what is abuse.. I think is vital
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  10. Happy Fun Pants
    827 days ago

    I think that you should also consider reading/learning about EMDR for trauma therapy.

    I’ve had several EMDR treatments/therapy and it has helped to deal with the trauma that I experienced as a child more than I can go into here.
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    • Ashley @ Nourishing the Soul
      827 days ago

      EMDR can be very useful – thanks for mentioning that here for others!

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